10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

April 20, 2009 by admin
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Knowing the signs is half the battle when it comes to figuring out if your partner is being unfaithful to you. Collated from thousands of signs people state are what to look out for, I have picked out the best to make a top 10 signs of a cheating spouse so that you too can keep your eyes and ears open!

1. Unusual calls, text’s or IM’s that have your spouses attention but are quickly cut off when you are near by. Turning off their cell phone completely which means that you are unable to contact them.

2. Working late or being at the gym every night. This is a classic sign many people wonder why their spouses are suddenly working late when they have never before, going to the gym but not losing weight, taking a class that has unusual hours. Being late for anything in general to which they have no reasonable explanation.

3. Sudden concern about their appearance, over preening, new hair cut or clothes. For men it can be something as simple as suddenly showering everyday but for women it can be much more of an overhaul.

4. Over mileage on the car. If you suddenly see that the car is being used more than it should, new tires are needed or the mileage is coming on strong and your local stores or work places are nearby then keep an eye out. Mileage of that caliber does not happen on a normal shopping trip or school run.

5. Avoiding sex or becoming over sexual more than normal. Most people when being unfaithful to their partner feel the need to be either distant to you or are suddenly really into you.

6. Everything is suddenly an argument. This is a form of reverse psychology; by getting you into a fight about something and then storming out they are able to feel less guilty as they can say it was your fault. For you it works as you are left feeling that you are the one to blame. This one sucks so look out for it.

7. They stop talking to you or suddenly start talking to you all hours of the day and night. Again this is a guilt thing so be vigilant of sudden bouts of silence that does not end no matter how you try or sudden bouts of constant chatting and asking questions about everything you are doing, where you are going and why.

8. You are the one that is being accused of being the cheat. They suddenly take an interest why you were late the other night, why your cell phone was turned off even though you proved that the battery had run out. You see cheaters often try to cover up what they are doing by accusing the other innocent partner of cheating. They feel it takes some of the heat off them.

9. A change in their working schedules which are confusing and irregular. You see no increase in their wage and when you so speak to someone whom they work with they have no idea what you are talking about.

10. They jump on the mail as soon as it arrives. This is difficult if you have a join bank account but credit cards that they have in their own name are another story. The bill when it comes in is whisked off never to be seen again. If they are taking out large cash withdrawals from the bank but cannot give reason to where they have spent it or are hiding statements it is probably because they have no way of hiding they had dinner at a restaurant on Friday when they were supposed to be working and were not with you.